Men what's up

I need to learn how to mind my own business. When someone is not talking to me, let it be know gore its not meant to hurt me its just that its doesn't involve me. Why is that I have a short span of expectation klaar I know or think i know that you don't like me. Its the energy neh cause if not what elese would it be. I've glorified myself for being a pessimist Next on the agenda is the fact that some men feel that when a woman is married to them, they automatically own them, guess what you don't own them. They are there to be your companion thats all. Cause what I heard today took me to another level of misunderstanding or I would say such understanding that men think that because of a certain level of testeron that they can beat a woman who decides that they won't cook for them because its either being tired or not having the energy to do that. Okay I have options to a question( if a married woman does not want to cook for her husband because she is either not hungry or doesn't feel like cooking) what should the husband do in this instant. ??? A. Beat the woman up cause its said that its her matrimonial duty to do. B. Try to find a solution to the problem of accessing food. C. Stand up and boil the water or whatever need to be done to commence with the cooking. This are the option and please give me enough reason to why is your answer like that. Look I might not be a hundred percent feminist mara some things bathong need us to understand that certain things need to improve

Reality is hectic

life is already hectic and damn annoying at its part. sometimes we enounter different people in life that have set their standard sharp and are ready to face the world, while others like myself are still confused and are battling the feeling that by this time you should already know what you want and who you are. The people in our life tend to shape who we are, taking a look at a household of Christians would the child grow up thinking that there is no such a thing or creator such a God. That would be ridiculous, or any other religion. The best part about any religion is that there will be always people who are good at heart and not hiding behind the word religion and thinking that they are superior to others. Do not judge I feel that, it should be used on daily and in every way on purpose. We cannot see another person's heart of their way of thinking, just because someone is different does not mean that they are unworthy. We are beautifully equal and unique at the same time. We happen to be the greatest creatures God has created because we can command all other creatures, but that doesn't mean we do not need those creatures. The cicle of life is beautiful and meaningful to all who abide by its purpose. I've had my fair share of battles but they don't seem to end once I've conquered one. That to me is like a knife on my back, why does life have to betray me like that. Allow me to reap what I worked hard for and bleed to the unrecognisable stage in life. Let me ensure that what I have earned is through me and the one's that supported me and we lead ourself to a stage of beauty. Our life is different and that ensures that even if different we are the same in birth and in death. Allow.me to ask for peace and humanity to arise and provide for it's creation. Thought I had everything planned out, like the typical movie scenes where I become what I've always dreamt of. That's life for you never acknowledging the ones that help to understand the meaning behind being alive and having a prupose, what's even more confusing is that regardless of what one does it'sreally never enough. what is happening in the wprld right now is what was forseen, however we decided that its not really going to happen. I'm not going to preach and lead you guys to my belief system but allow you to understand that the path of righteousnessis right under out nose. Until we meet again as my heart is breoken and in pain.But with hard work it will come back and resuscitate.