Men what's up

I need to learn how to mind my own business. When someone is not talking to me, let it be know gore its not meant to hurt me its just that its doesn't involve me. Why is that I have a short span of expectation klaar I know or think i know that you don't like me. Its the energy neh cause if not what elese would it be. I've glorified myself for being a pessimist Next on the agenda is the fact that some men feel that when a woman is married to them, they automatically own them, guess what you don't own them. They are there to be your companion thats all. Cause what I heard today took me to another level of misunderstanding or I would say such understanding that men think that because of a certain level of testeron that they can beat a woman who decides that they won't cook for them because its either being tired or not having the energy to do that. Okay I have options to a question( if a married woman does not want to cook for her husband because she is either not hungry or doesn't feel like cooking) what should the husband do in this instant. ??? A. Beat the woman up cause its said that its her matrimonial duty to do. B. Try to find a solution to the problem of accessing food. C. Stand up and boil the water or whatever need to be done to commence with the cooking. This are the option and please give me enough reason to why is your answer like that. Look I might not be a hundred percent feminist mara some things bathong need us to understand that certain things need to improve